4th October 2008
I have a date with my old classmates and it is gald to see them in Midvalley. Actually I think i will be late as my brother will sent me to station to KTM. But, I need to change train in KTM. Therefore, I plan to take my lunch at home and I ask them not to wait for me for lunch.But, they tell me that they havent take lunch and i go lunch with them....Haha..second round lunch....really full....
After meeting up, I need to take train to Kepong to have dinner with my fdisable friends and also my good friend. But, it rains heavily and lucky my friend pick me up in the station. We reach Beautiful Gate but we plan not to go into the house as both of us have to much things to chat and my friend talks untill cry. I feel so sad and touch with what she said. this is because I did have the same experiences before. the different is that her problems is much more serious than mine.
As per previous blog, I did mention that the story will be continued. haha....here I will continue. After listen to my friend's story, I really realize that sometime treating people good will cause surrfering to ourselves. I am not saying that treating people good is a bad thing...just that we should have a limit to that. Just that my friend, she is putting 101% into the friendship and she just get nothing...Not we want any return from anything that we do, just we hope our friend will remember for good things...But for her, her friends will only look for her when they are in need or in trouble.....Even a birthday wishes also dint sent to her......it is really sad....as the feeling like 7-eleven, will go there when in need but, will enjoy in shopping complex.
Why we have to treat someone we appreciate but for other it is just nothing. I know my friend well and I see her eye drops like water falls.....She is really a kind girl and she will try hard to help the her friends. But, she only get a cold response from her close friends when she needs help.
Why she has to get this kind of treatment? yup..may be I dont know clearly the situation and I cannot judge it. But, I did experience before these kind of situations....therefore, I know the feeling well...But, I feel fortunate that I still have my good friends and family.
She did advice me that I am just like a mirror of her and she hopes that i wont be like her in the future. Really thank you to get to know her in my life. She is one of the senior + friend who can gives valuable advices to me.
Hope she can recover soon and happy always....Living in this world is to share the happiness and
to see smile on their face.
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顾及他人的感受同时别忘了为自己而活!流泪也蛮不错呀,许多人已不懂得流泪了。。。
Yup...have to live for ourselves...
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